Relationship Dynamics

I believe that a  man has to be the stable one in the relationship dynamics. Because most women, by nature, are lively, sensitive, highly emotional, and full of life, there is a lot of feminine energy bursting forth with full force. A calm man is the ideal base to handle this force. If the man is not mature enough and is also anxious, then it gets difficult to manage the love of his life. A woman can also be calm, but it is highly likely that she might struggle to handle a man with anxious or highly sensitive emotions, as opposed to a calm man handling a woman with this type of nature. As feminine energy is supposed to be artistic, expressive, lively, sensitive and emotional, she needs someone who is a stable base to let her not only be fully expressive but also allow her to grow and, most importantly, be there with her even when she is overwhelmed by her own emotions. A man has the responsibility to make his loved one feel safe with him. At times, one of them will likely be unsteady or unstable, and it is vital that the other one remains strong, stable and steady, and most of the time is upto man. Very important to make your loved one know that you are always going to be by herside for everything, no matter what happens.

Maturity aside, a loving man would always be there in full support of his loved one, even in the most adverse times. As long as he understands, cares, respects, and truly loves her, he will ensure her emotional well-being and reassure her that she is very precious to him. If both individuals panic, then there would be issues, so one of them, ideally both of them, has to be very understanding. That being said, as long as there is true love, even misunderstanding each other would not create any major issues. Adjusting to each other’s needs and sacrificing for each other are also key parts of harmonious relations. For example, when one of them has to travel due to professional reasons, the other has to be mature enough to handle the temporary physical separation and thus sacrifice their emotional need for the company of the loved one. Resolve and determination are the keys but that naturally comes when you love someone from the core of your heart, mind and

Ideally, both people having similar interests and goals helps, but it would be even better if they take an interest in each other’s goals and interests as well. If one has a hobby that they cannot share with the other, it can create a small emotional void. From my personal perspective, the real depth of a relationship comes from understanding each other not just as adults, but also being able to understand each other’s inner child. It is vital to let their inner self be fully expressive, which may be suppressed due to childhood traumas. Furthermore, it is also vital not to judge each other for your dark side as long as it is not too dark; in that case, one simply has to kindly tell the other how it is wrong and help her/he come out of the darker tendencies. That is where the growth of both involved comes into play; it is not just physical and mental growth, but also spiritual growth in the eternal existence of their souls.