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What attracts a woman in a man is a show of power, control and skill. What attracts a man in a woman is not necessarily her beauty but rather her kindness, warmth, caring and understanding nature. In most cases, there are the primordial needs, wants, and attractions.

Even before the TV, there have been certain lifestyle patterns that indicate the various reasons for loss of family time. People used to gather around during festivals. The family would go on trips during holidays. But during that period with no festivals or holidays, the husband would be busy with work, the wife generally busy with household chores, and the children most likely busy with school and play. I have noted, looking back, that my mother was always busy in the kitch

I never liked the concept of detachment, and the philosophies of moksha, nirvana, and liberation make no sense to me. Shrimad Bhagavat Geeta originally consists of 84 verses. The original principles are Dharma, Artha and Kama. Someone or some people decided to add moksha. So, the idea that all desires lead to misery and are pointless just live a desireless life and aim for dissolvement or merger with the divine, sounds like a tool to discourage people from having any ambition

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One thing I finally realised, especially for foreigners, is how an ultra-modern lifestyle seems to leave everyone lonely, and then they are stuck in that loneliness and the loop that follows, which keeps them even lonelier. Here is the most common pattern that I assume happens in such cases. A person starts dating. In males, if they are moral, then they are looking to settle down; otherwise, it's a case of score and move on to the next. It is actually far worse for females wh

Note:- Just my assumptions, I do not have any relationship experience, never been in one, I am a virgin. I think what females likely want is not to be overpowered or controlled, but rather to provide the best they can for their loved ones. They are not necessarily naughty or want to be dominated during intimacy, but rather want to feel they are valued. I am having such thoughts as I am finally maturing into a man. More of an inner hunch. Emotional safety is the first part whi

I recently realised one thing: since everyone is unique, emotional maturity will differ for everyone. Plus, there needs to be consideration of how each individual was raised, has gone through, and is going through in life, as maturity and growth are a constant process. I always wondered why my nephew is much more mature than I, till I realised that despite having similar parental experience, his financial status is much different, he has not gone through what I have, differen

Instead of blindly following everything told to you, in any field of life, it's better to have your own philosophy and inner beliefs. Considering that historical information could have been modified. Generally, having a strong moral sense and knowledge of what is right and wrong is good. Combine that with the inner voice, philosophy, and beliefs, and you will rarely do something you do not believe in. Regarding faith and religion, following traditions is a good thing and logi

Someone gave me words of wisdom when I shared about the grief of the loss of my parents. She said you should not forget about them, but not let the loss overwhelm you. This really helped me. If she had said something like you are stuck in past, it would not have helped me heal through this grief, but her words actually healed me and helped me overcome this grief. Such is the power of wise advice. You never know how sound advice might help someone reach a breakthrough. Just y

I had an online friend from abroad block me recently. As I went through the block, I had a lot of self-realisations. Including the fact that no one can replace her. What we have is a unique bond based on philosophical exchanges, deeper conversations about various aspects of life and relationships. Her words of wisdom heal me; she felt like a guru to me. I told her that you purify me. I finally realised that each one of us is unique. Even when I was interacting with other frie

Ayurvedic medicine is known to take longer to cure diseases, but it is considered more effective than modern medicine. Take the example of a cough: modern medicine will make it dry rather than clear it, whereas Ayurvedic medicine clears it. Ayurvedic medicine is known to go deep into the root of diseases, while modern medicine often offers a temporary relief instead of a total cure. Herbal and plant-based solutions are safer and have fewer side effects. Ayurveda offers tradit

Having gone through quarrelling parents personally for decades, I can certainly relate to those who have gone through the same or worse, like divorce. Understanding how quarrels between parents affect their children is something parents need to understand themselves first. Instead of being given a safe and loving atmosphere, the parents, with their quarrels, only provided psychological trauma that lasts for a long time. The lack of time given by these parents affects their ch

If you listen to your mind, it will likely sound logical and practical. If you listen to the heart, it will likely sound dreamy and grand. An ideal balance would be following both mind & heart; however, in emotional matters, following the heart is more idealistic. Because the mind tends to be practical yet selfish, whereas the heart is giving and devotional. The mind cannot understand the value of emotions; it will try to be calculative, but in emotional matters, being calcul

I believe that the ego is essentially the childish aspect of human nature. The ego becomes a hurdle when your anger gets the best of you. When things do not go your way, and you get angry, that is the ego at work. Anger and ego go hand in hand. Arguments are also signs of ego. Wanting things to go your way can be a sign of ego. Always wanting to be at the top is a sign of ego. Devotion is one of the best ways to dissolve the ego. Unconditional love is also one of the best way

I believe that a man has to be the stable one in the relationship dynamics. Because most women, by nature, are lively, sensitive, highly emotional, and full of life, there is a lot of feminine energy bursting forth with full force. A calm man is the ideal base to handle this force. If the man is not mature enough and is also anxious, then it gets difficult to manage the love of his life. A woman can also be calm, but it is highly likely that she might struggle to handle a ma

The Good Chaebols K-Drama Concept is my first short story book available in kindle. See the sample here .

Why do we fall in love? Is it because someone is looking very beautiful? Or is it their nature? Here is what I think is the psychology behind love. It is just the looks, then I believe that it is more about lust than actual love. When someone speaks very sweetly to a person who has never been praised or shown affection by others, especially by their own family members, it may be one of the core reasons behind falling in love with that person. Kindness is a rare feature in the

When one has gone through trauma, heartbreak, hardships, disappointments, and other life's miseries, love is the best medicine for that person. If someone has witnessed their parents quarrel, separation, or had difficult parents, then the best thing for them is to be loved and respected by the people around them. The person who has gone through various difficulties also needs to be emotional, kind, and loving to others. They do not need to dry up their emotions from within. B

Some people offer good advice to others, but they struggle to follow their own advice in similar situations. That could be due to multiple factors. Lack of self-confidence or even due to self-criticism. It is generally easy to advise others, but to follow our own advice, we need 3 things. Determination: Be firm, have strong emotions. Once you decide to do something, follow it. Consistency follows determination. Discipline: One needs to discipline oneself. When you are discipl

This is what it feels like when you are in love, from a male’s perspective, from my own personal experience. Everything suddenly starts looking beautiful. You will appreciate the weather more. You tend to behave better and feel like you should be your best. When you are near the person you love, you will feel like all your miseries are gone, you feel purified, and all your ill thoughts (even lust) also vanish. You are basically the happiest you have ever been. You become emot