Psychology behind love

Why do we fall in love? Is it because someone is looking very beautiful? Or is it their nature? Here is what I think is the psychology behind love. It is just the looks, then I believe that it is more about lust than actual love. When someone speaks very sweetly to a person who has never been praised or shown affection by others, especially by their own family members, it may be one of the core reasons behind falling in love with that person. Kindness is a rare feature in the modern world. When someone appears very kind to you, it might be one of the main reasons for being in love with that person, because they bring you a lot of peace and happiness with their kind words. Essentially, loving someone because of their personality/nature. In the case of deeper love, you just enjoy being in the company of the person you love, and their happiness and sadness deeply affect you as well.

If you think about this from a religious aspect, it would simply be karmic relations, especially when two people of opposite natures fall in love with each other. Opposites do attract after all, and it is a bond of female and male energies. Logically speaking, females bring nurturing energies, so there is naturally warmth and kindness there, and for males, that is something they need more than they might think. While males bring care and affection, which is something that would likely appeal to most women. Now, if I see this from my philosophical standpoint, love blossoms when someone touches the heart, mind and soul, mostly through their words and their real nature. Generally, when two people see various aspects of life and relations from similar view points, they would likely get attached to each other. When it comes to love based on physical behaviour or relation, having never experienced such stuff in life yet, I cannot comment on anything about it. There is also first love, but it is mostly the effect of the teenage years.

But if I follow my instincts, I think that love would blossom when two people not only understand each other deeply, but also make each other realise their inner beauty. Physical beauty would fade, or the lust would lessen eventually over the years, but the beauty of one’s nature is immortal. Though people do change over time, most of their core inner nature would highly likely remain the same. Marriage would generally highlight both the best and worst in each other, and this is where two people would grow together very well, and transformations would be for the good of each other, as long as their bond remains intact. At times, one would fall in love with someone cause that person has what they are lacking. Personally, it would be for nature, someone I admire, who has a strongheart a kind nature, full of warmth and humanity and the one who understands people For me, love is eternal; I believe that deepest love involves losing oneself in the other person. I refuse heaven and even freedom from life and death without the one I love..